Insert above: A Wise man told me: "Don't argue with fools, 'cause people from a distance can't tell who is who".
Today too many fools are arguing across the distance of Facebook and other social Media platforms and at home and other places. They end up hating or disliking each other and placing the barrier of Ghill (disdain or grudges) with one another which in turn causes their Ruhani to freeze or block.
More about Detrimental or ill effects one causes to themselves through Ghill that then stops or blocks Spiritual progress later to be posted.
My Naseeha to remember when you get into arguments with friends, family and people, be the 1st to make up and peace, lower yourself and ask forgiveness even if you are right and they are selfish and wrong, for this way you are being humble and keep Adaab-Manners because;
"Whoever does not argue when he is in the wrong will have a home built for him on the edge of Paradise. Whoever avoids it when he in the right will have a home built for him in the middle of Paradise. And whoever improves his own character, a home will be built for him in the highest part of Paradise." -hadith
"I guarantee a house in Jannah for one who gives up arguing, even if he is in the right; and I guarantee a home in the middle of Jannah for one who abandons lying even for the sake of fun; and I guarantee a house in the highest part of Jannah for one who has good manners.'' -hadith
1. Don't argue when you are wrong, a home is built on the edge of Jannah.
2. Don't argue when you are Right, a home is built in the Middle of Jannah.
3. Whoever Improves his Adaab is given a home in Highest part of Jannah.
4. The last point Improving ones Adaab, explains points 1 and 2 which is, those of adaab will avoid and give up Arguments and Quarreling.
Those who cannot Give up Arguments and Quarreling but, are happy to give up a Guaranteed a house in Jannah! think about that!
Seriously is any Argument worth that? Regardless that you are right and they are wrong! But you are willing to argue, your Egos point.
Now a Guaranteed a house in Jannah means you enter Jannah Guaranteed. But it all hinges on having Adaab and improving ones Adaab-Manners and leaving arguments.
#Adaab #Manners #Argue
Sajad Ali - Tariqah Qadiri Dastagir
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